满足感！任何一道美食都能为饕客带来满足感。法国鹅肝及鱼翅可满足食欲，而色情戏则能满足情欲。正如法国鹅肝及鱼翅，色情戏的背后其实隐藏不少令人震惊兼且残酷的故事。
行使不人道的手法来伤害动物–强行喂食鹅鸭来烹调法国鹅肝而捕杀鲨鱼为取其鱼翅是广为人知并且被世人公认为缺乏道德和变态的。色情业也不例外，正当两个成年人为了金钱而你情我愿地在镜头前交欢时，究竟会有多残酷呢？尤其两人看似浸淫其中而欢乐无穷。
色情业能巧妙地想令你相信两人在镜头前确实是极度浸淫于性爱中。随着呻吟而来的高潮也不似作假。此外女色情演员们在面谈中也信誓旦旦地表示她们享受着色情工作。
然而此非真相。多亏前色情演员温尼莎。贝尔蒙出来揭发色情戏幕后种种的事件，你将发现色情戏根本是个骗局。没错，确是个大骗局！
色情戏里无一是真的。从抚摸身体的玩笑声，热情交织的口交，直至肛交的极点高潮。这无非只是一连串经过巧妙编排的性爱表演，为了蒙骗你而令你觉得色情演员尤其是女生，是享受性爱的。
在此重申，在银幕里你所看到的性爱演出其实几乎都是非想象般美好的。连简单的口交演出也是痛苦的。女演员通常被外物强行塞入口中而导致喉咙极度不适，进而可能导致口腔痙攣，甚至呼吸困难。肛交演出简直是女演员的噩梦，而这往往导致直肠下垂–内脏被挤压出肛门的一种恶状。（上网索寻就可知直肠下垂到底是什麽一回事。）与此同时，在具虐待性及高度暴露私处的一女多男性交场面里，女生的私处被两个男生硬闯而导致阴道和肛门撕裂是时而发生的。在镜头里，女演员们不但需忍受肢体的折磨，而且被掠夺尊严，被侮辱及羞辱，被逼吞精等等。你觉得这一切是享受吗？
令人惊骇的是多数女演员其实都不愿演出以上所提及的高度暴露私处场面。在拍摄途中更改而加插如肛门，屁股对着口腔等等女演员起初不愿意参与的演出是极其平常的。女演员如不愿拍摄就往往在酬金上不得分毫。她甚至将被列入黑名单而往后在色情业里永不录用。所以，多数演员是情不甘的情形下去完成拍摄以赚取生活费来维持生计。我对女演员们因逼于无奈而造成巨大的情绪困扰是身同感受的，事关五个月前我在飞往沙地阿拉伯公干时发生过类似的遭遇。在机场时我被海关人员拉到一旁而哄诱我以让他玩弄我的肛门。我婉拒对方而在上帝的庇佑下安然地脱险，真的是谢天谢地。我顿时真的是如释重负而庆幸对方没硬来兼霸王硬上弓。你们有的可能觉得事情既滑稽又可笑，但此事确是对我打击深重。此等事是本不应发生在任何人身上的。因此回到色情业里在威逼利诱的情况下，问题的根本就应是女演员的人权被侵犯，而不是当初同意演出之说了。
色情演员们患上性病是很普遍的。由于被禁止使用避孕套，因此演员们很容易患上性病。事关色情业里都坚信如在戏里使用避孕套可令顾客意兴阑珊，导致光碟销售及下载量减少而打击利润。所以，演员们惟有在拍摄时真空上阵，不然就被列入黑名单！此外，每月为色情演员所提供的性病测试则令人误以为在色情业里工作是安全的。而且大多数的色情演员还兼职为客人陪睡，每月的健康测试对预防性病更本无补于事。连既旧又脏的性爱玩具也甚少被卫生处理，这显示色情业简直是忽视其工作者的福利。因此七成女色情演员患上如披衣菌，淋病，疱疹及梅毒等常见的性病是见怪不怪的。上网索寻此等疾病图片时，千万可别吓倒哦。
至此我敢肯定你对色情演员尤其是女生在色情业里被亏待而觉得反感。现在你会抵制色情事物并且对色情业利用不道德的手法去对待女生而发出强烈的谴责吗？亦或会仍然浸淫在色情之中？如果因出自对动物的同理心而停止享用法国鹅肝及鱼翅，我坚信我们也更应远离色情事物。
Special thanks to Vince Foong in translating What Does Pornography Have In Common With The French Delicacy Foie Gras and Chinese Shark Fin Soup? into Chinese.
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Is It Acceptable For Christians To Masturbate?
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article contains references from the Bible and is deemed unsuitable to those
belonging to the Muslim faith.
Why do we masturbate? All sort of reasons – stress release, pass time, etc. But truth is there are other things we can do to release stress like hitting the gym for a healthy workout, catching up with friends for a drink and we can read a book to increase our knowledge or play a console game to pass time. So with such endless possibilities God has blessed us with why then do we still resort to masturbation?
Frankly we masturbate for one purpose which is to gratify our sexual lust and sadly almost always accompanied with pornographic materials to heighten the sensation and pleasure.
While the Bible seems to be silent on the subject matter, is it acceptable then for the Children of God to masturbate especially when we are called to be holy in everything we do (1 Peter 1:15) and to imitate our Lord Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 11:1)?
FYI God is not completely silent when it comes to masturbation. In Matthew 5:28 Jesus makes it very clear that ‘anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.’
Stop and meditate on Matthew 5:28 for a moment then try to remember how you feel towards the woman when you are masturbating looking at pornographic materials or the mental image conjured in your mind. Take some time to reflect on this and pray about it. Soon enough I believe you will come to realise how startling similar masturbation is as described in Matthew 5:28 that when you are masturbating, you are indeed looking at the woman lustfully in your heart, with or without pornographic materials.
Matthew 5:28 makes it clear then that masturbation is not pleasing to God and therefore should deter Christians from indulging in masturbation.
However our unwillingness to completely let go of the pleasure of masturbation and our inability to discipline our mind to exhibit self-control over our body have us constantly challenging the truth and in doing so we are giving the devil a foothold to come out with all sort of excuses or justification to masturbate.
One such justification that caught my attention is the ability to masturbate without lusting over a woman like how young innocent boys first discover masturbation during shower at the tender age of 8 or 9 years old. That maybe the case at that time but with exposure to pornography or even past experience of actual sexual relationship, it becomes impossible to masturbate free from sexual lust completely. If sexual lust is not involved at all during masturbation as claimed there won’t be an urge to masturbate in the first place.
Meditate on Ephesians 4:27 and heed Paul’s advice – ‘do not give the devil a foothold’ in distorting the truth on Matthew 5:28 and that masturbation is in no way pleasing to God at all.
Unless otherwise noted, all articles written by Peng Jun Kiat. Copyright © 2013 All Rights Reserved. Permission must be specifically granted in writing for use or reprinting.
Why do we masturbate? All sort of reasons – stress release, pass time, etc. But truth is there are other things we can do to release stress like hitting the gym for a healthy workout, catching up with friends for a drink and we can read a book to increase our knowledge or play a console game to pass time. So with such endless possibilities God has blessed us with why then do we still resort to masturbation?
Frankly we masturbate for one purpose which is to gratify our sexual lust and sadly almost always accompanied with pornographic materials to heighten the sensation and pleasure.
While the Bible seems to be silent on the subject matter, is it acceptable then for the Children of God to masturbate especially when we are called to be holy in everything we do (1 Peter 1:15) and to imitate our Lord Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 11:1)?
FYI God is not completely silent when it comes to masturbation. In Matthew 5:28 Jesus makes it very clear that ‘anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.’
Stop and meditate on Matthew 5:28 for a moment then try to remember how you feel towards the woman when you are masturbating looking at pornographic materials or the mental image conjured in your mind. Take some time to reflect on this and pray about it. Soon enough I believe you will come to realise how startling similar masturbation is as described in Matthew 5:28 that when you are masturbating, you are indeed looking at the woman lustfully in your heart, with or without pornographic materials.
Matthew 5:28 makes it clear then that masturbation is not pleasing to God and therefore should deter Christians from indulging in masturbation.
However our unwillingness to completely let go of the pleasure of masturbation and our inability to discipline our mind to exhibit self-control over our body have us constantly challenging the truth and in doing so we are giving the devil a foothold to come out with all sort of excuses or justification to masturbate.
One such justification that caught my attention is the ability to masturbate without lusting over a woman like how young innocent boys first discover masturbation during shower at the tender age of 8 or 9 years old. That maybe the case at that time but with exposure to pornography or even past experience of actual sexual relationship, it becomes impossible to masturbate free from sexual lust completely. If sexual lust is not involved at all during masturbation as claimed there won’t be an urge to masturbate in the first place.
Meditate on Ephesians 4:27 and heed Paul’s advice – ‘do not give the devil a foothold’ in distorting the truth on Matthew 5:28 and that masturbation is in no way pleasing to God at all.
Unless otherwise noted, all articles written by Peng Jun Kiat. Copyright © 2013 All Rights Reserved. Permission must be specifically granted in writing for use or reprinting.
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